|Here are some answers to the frequently asked
questions about Chez Louis (Party Couples+).
If you have any question that are not covered here, please do not hesitate to ask us. We want to make sure you are comfortable before you even come out to your first event.
|What and who are swingers? People who
swing come from all backgrounds. Some are from different economic levels, job,
classifications, races and nationalities. Physically you will see all types; tall or
short, skinny or fat, young or old, and everything in between. Swingers tend to be
adventuresome, emotionally mature, and have excellent relationships with their spouse,
family and friends. Swingers are just ordinary people with normal sexual desires just like
you. Most swingers are pleasant people who want to form friendship that will include the
warmth of sexual expression and intimacy.
Do we have to be a married couple to join Chez Louis (Party Couples +) ? You'll be welcomed whether you're married, dating, living with your significant other or going steady. Today's world has changed dramatically from just a few years ago. Marriage is not a condition of belonging. The circle is for male/female couples only. You must be of legal age and both of you need to know what the circle is all about.
Are our names ever given out? NO! Your name, adress and phone number are personal and kept confidential. We never give them out to other members without first getting your permission and we do not sell our mailist lists. EVER!
Do we have to be active in the lifestyle to attend Chez Louis (Party Couples +) ? Many couples who have joined are just looking for a little extra excitement to spice up their own relationship. Some of our members are active in the lifestyle. Some couples are exhibitionists, others are voyeurs, some are into fetish wear. Yet, they all share one thing in common, they are all open minded and tolerant of everyone.
What is the age range of Your members? Though Chez Louis (Party Couples +) is open to everybody and we do have members from their early 20's through to their 50's, the bulk of our members are men & women in their 30's 40's
How do we meet couples? Come to one of our dances. If you are particulary nervous, ask your host to introduce you to other couples. But if the dance is busy, we are not always able to do this, so take the initiative.
Can I get more involved with the circle? Yes, absolutely, we'd love to have your special talents, skills or know-how!!! The rewards far outweigh the costs. If you're interested, we'd be delighted to talk to you, just call us.
Can we be up front about our sexual desires? Yes by all means be up-front. It is essential that everyone know up-front what they are getting into. You could save everyone from a potentially embarrassing situation later on. If you are Bi, and it is also important that your partner also be bi, make sure your new found friends are too. Also find out about everyones limits.
What if I find myself in an uncomfortable situation? If a couple or a situation make you feel ill-at-ease, perhaps it's the time to invoke the rule of "NO Thank You" You should never feel pressured into doing anything you are not comfortable doing. You're here to have fun. Being forced is NO FUN. So if anyone persists, talk to the host couple.
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